August is Romance Awareness Month, a time to check the health of your romantic relationship. Take this time to build more connection and romance between you and your partner. There are many things you can do to work on your relationship whether it's a large gesture of love or something more simple but heartfelt. One simple thing you can do is spend time together. That time could doing activities you enjoy as a couple, or it could be just being together in the same room at home cuddling, watching a movie, or even reading books.

Kansas Talking Books can assist you with books. We've gathered a few romance novels and a few nonfiction books on love and human relationships. Though there are some people that disagree, romance novels are not just for women and can be enjoyed by all. While some may seem unrealistic in their expectations, others can assist you in learning about activities, gestures, or even gain insight to the emotional experiences of those in the relationship. For those less inclined to romance novels, learn about love, the psychology of relationships, and what to do to encourage connection in your relationship. 

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Romance

DB 120998 Funny story by Emily Henry

"Daphne always loved the way Peter told their story. How they met, fell in love, and moved back to his lakeside hometown to begin their life together. Too bad it turned out to be more of a prequel, a complication to Peter's actual love story, the one that ends with him dumping Daphne before their wedding to begin a relationship with his lifelong best friend, Petra. And so that's how Daphne's story really begins: stranded in beautiful Waning Bay, Michigan, without friends or family but with a dream job as a children's librarian (that barely pays the bills), and proposing to be roommates with the only other non-Peter-related person she knows: Petra's heartbroken ex, Miles Nowak. Just until she can get a new dream job literally anywhere else. Scruffy and chaotic, Miles is entirely the opposite of buttoned-up Daphne, and they mainly avoid one another until one night, while drowning their sorrows, they form a tenuous friendship. Miles decides he will convince Daphne to give Waning Bay a real shot. He'll show her why he loves this idyllic town and its residents, and if they happen to post deliberately misleading photos of their adventures together--for a particular audience of two--who could blame them? Miles believes Daphne deserves the chance to build a life here, her own life. As she begins to fall for the town, Daphne wonders what this summer is supposed to mean. Is it just for fun? An interlude to her own love story? Or maybe it was never meant to be a love story? Maybe it was just an anecdote to share at future dinner parties: that time she fell in love with her ex-fiancé's new fiancée's ex-boyfriend. Who's to say?"-- Provided by publisher.  --  Explicit descriptions of sex, strong language. Commercial audiobook.

DB 81845 Landline by Rainbow Rowell

Georgie McCool's career as a television writer is taking off, but her marriage to Neal is in trouble. Missing the Christmas trip with her family is the last straw, and they go to Omaha without her. When Georgie tries to phone Neal, she somehow calls the past. Some strong language. 2014.

DB 97443 The bromance book club by Lyssa Kay Adams

Baseball player Gavin Scott's marriage is in trouble, and to fix things, he's going to need some assistance. He finds a secret book club of other men who have used romance novels to fix their own relationships, and they agree to help him win back his family. Unrated. Commercial audiobook. 2019.

DB 65344 Call me by your name by André Aciman

Each summer Elio's parents host a scholar in their home on the Italian Riviera. Oliver, a young academic from America arrives, igniting in seventeen-year-old Elio a passionate longing and desire. Years later Elio recollects his search for intimacy during that transformative season. Some descriptions of sex. 2007.

DB 112344 This must be the place by Maggie O'Farrell

"Daniel Sullivan leads a complicated life. A New Yorker living in the wilds of Ireland, he has children he never sees in California, a father he loathes in Brooklyn, and his wife, Claudette, is a reclusive ex-film star given to pulling a gun on anyone who ventures up their driveway. Together, they have made an idyllic life in the country, but a secret from Daniel's past threatens to destroy their meticulously constructed and fiercely protected home. Shot through with humor and wisdom, This Must Be the Place is an irresistible love story that crisscrosses continents and time zones as it captures an extraordinary marriage, and an unforgettable family, with wit and deep affection." -- Provided by publisher. -- Unrated. Commercial audiobook.

Find more romance novels to browse in the Kansas Talking Books online catalog. You can narrow the results by using the filters on the left-hand side of the book list. 

Human Relationships

DB 121493 Somehow: thoughts on love by Anne Lamott

""Love is our only hope," Anne Lamott writes in this perceptive new book. "It is not always the easiest choice, but it is always the right one, the noble path, the way home to safety, no matter how bleak the future looks." In Somehow: Thoughts on Love, Lamott explores the transformative power that love has in our lives: how it surprises us, forces us to confront uncomfortable truths, reminds us of our humanity, and guides us forward. "Love just won't be pinned down," she says. "It is in our very atmosphere" and lies at the heart of who we are. We are, Lamott says, creatures of love. In each chapter of Somehow, Lamott refracts all the colors of the spectrum. She explores the unexpected love for a partner later in life. The bruised (and bruising) love for a child who disappoints, even frightens. The sustaining love among a group of sinners, for a community in transition, in the wider world. The lessons she underscores are that love enlightens as it educates, comforts as it energizes, sustains as it surprises. Somehow is Anne Lamott's twentieth book, and in it she draws from her own life and experience to delineate the intimate and elemental ways that love buttresses us in the face of despair as it galvanizes us to believe that tomorrow will be better than today. Full of the compassion and humanity that have made Lamott beloved by millions of readers, Somehow is classic Anne Lamott: funny, warm, and wise"-- Provided by publisher.  --  Unrated. Commercial audiobook. Bestseller.

DB 64174 The five love languages: how to express heartfelt commitment to your mate by Gary Chapman

Marriage counselor offers advice on affirming love to one's partner. Chapman defines five different love languages--quality time, words of affirmation, receiving gifts, acts of service, and physical touch--that are based on psychological disposition. Suggests ways individuals can decipher their spouse's emotional preferences, providing examples from his own practice. Bestseller. 2004.

DB 128907 Attached: the new science of adult attachment and how it can help you find-and keep-love by Amir Levine

"We already rely on science to tell us what to eat, when to exercise, and how long to sleep. Why not use science to help us improve our relationships? In this revolutionary book, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller scientifically explain why why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle. Discover how an understanding of adult attachment--the most advanced relationship science in existence today--can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways: -Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back -Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness -Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. [This book] guides listeners in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love."-- From publisher.  --  Unrated. Commercial audiobook.

DB 112671 The love prescription: seven days to more intimacy, connection, and joy by John Mordechai Gottman

"What makes love last? Why does one couple stay together forever, while another falls apart? And most importantly, is there a scientific formula for love? Drs. John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman are the world's leading relationship scientists. For the past forty years, they have been studying love. They've gathered data on over three thousand couples, looking at everything from their body language to the way they converse to their stress hormone levels. Their goal: to identify the building blocks of love. The Love Prescription distills their life's work into a bite-size, seven-day action plan with easy, immediately actionable steps. There will be no grand gestures and no big, hard conversations. There's nothing to buy or do to prepare. Anyone can do this, from any starting point. The seven-day prescription will lead you through these exercises: Day 1: Make Contact; Day 2: Ask a Big Question; Day 3: Say Thank You; Day 4: Give a Real Compliment; Day 5: Ask for What You Need; Day 6: Reach Out and Touch; Day 7: Declare a Date Night. There is a formula for a good relationship, and this book will show you how a few small changes can fundamentally transform your relationship for the better." -- Provided by publisher.  --  Unrated. Commercial audiobook.

Looking for other books on human relationships. Try browsing the Kansas Talking Books online catalog for other titles.